on finding a voice: solitude & creativity in the internet age


I’m supposed to be writing about nutrition, or exercise, or obesity, or some combination thereof. Yet, I every time I sit down to write, I feel this sense of futility: what’s left to be said?

Every day, there is some  New York Times article or NPR story or even a Facebook post about the latest development in the nutrition world, which inevitably spawns a million more posts, tweets, and comments in reply. Is a calorie a calorie? Is sugar the devil? What’s the deal with butter, anyway? It seems we go on and on, often without much new evidence, or barring evidence, insights.

As a novice researcher, I find that the most difficult challenge is developing creative, new ideas. No matter how hard I try, often my mind is blank. I’m overwhelmed with the clamoring of a million voices online: it seems so much has already been said or done. This dearth creates a budding anxiety, which further crowds out any useful thoughts: how will I ever finish this dissertation? Develop a research agenda? Write a (successful) grant? Should I give it all up and relinquish myself to a life of serving twist cones at the local fro-yo shop? (Not that that would be so bad: hello, free toppings.)

Back in elementary school, when a teacher posed a writing assignment or science project, I thrilled to the challenge. I relished the slow start of a new idea, followed by a gradual building of excitement as the idea took on a form and shape and life of its own, to burst forward from my pencil or typewriter in the form of an essay or report or science project. I could hardly wait to get home and begin. Sitting among a dusty pile of books, sorting through the pages and jotting down notes, the hours would fly by.

Now, posed with the same challenge, I immediately go online. I read dozens of papers, op-eds, and blogs, and usually, by the end, any glimmer of an idea that I had feels as flat as week-old soda (non sugar-sweetened, of course). It’s hard to sift through the constantly-growing pile of pre-existing opinions (some well-informed, some not), and hold on to something that is fresh, original, and somehow strikes that fine balance between building upon an existing evidence base and beating a dead horse.

I log into Twitter and watch the rapidly scrolling updates, and feel like a river is washing over me.   I struggle to see how I can contribute something new—and more importantly, meaningful—in the crowd.How do I find my own voice amongst the cacophony?

Well, the blatant truth is—I don’t know. (And if I did, I probably wouldn’t be writing this). My hope is that innovation is like a muscle, and that over time, and with enough practice, I will be able to scan the vast information universe and carefully pluck out interesting and meaningful ideas.  In the meantime, I keep coming back to this commencement address  by William Deresiewicz, which has resonated with me ever since I stumbled upon it years ago. The title is “Leadership and Solitude,” but at the end of the day, it’s essentially a guide on how to be a thinker.

To be a thinker, he says, the most important thing is to slow down and concentrate. To put down the smartphone, exit out of the 10 different browser tabs, and just wrench closed the faucet of information which inundates us constantly.

It means solitude—not cutting yourself off from the world completely, but focusing intensely on the matter at hand, for an extended period of time. It means allowing yourself the time and space to read deeply, not simply to skim the latest alerts from PubMed or ResearchGate.

It means having long, meandering conversations with friends and colleagues, conversations which don’t have an obvious agenda but from which ideas begin to coalesce and take hold. It means taking long walks in the woods or on busy cities, with the simple purpose of just thinking.

All of these are luxuries I rarely allow myself.  Like everyone else these days, I suffer from the “busy trap”: too much to do, and not enough time to do it (or so I think). Besides, these activities aren’t overtly productive in the way I have been conditioned to be productive. Yet, I know that although I am busy now, I will only become increasingly busy as time goes by, and obligations pile up. Without intentionally choosing to slow down and seek out solitude, I might forever be too busy with work to do the most important kind of work of all: nurturing ideas.

So for now, I’m trying to carve out an hour in the morning, before my day officially “starts,” to read, or write, or just go for a walk. To let my thoughts percolate along with my coffee, without pressure or direction, and see what emerges. My hope is that I’ll strike upon some creative process that will get the juices flowing, and once I find it, I’ll have a lifelong resource to tap into.

As for how well it works? Check back in five years and I’ll let you know.

how i became a morning person–and stopped peeing in the shower


Most of my life, I’ve been a night owl. From age 5 to 25, the three most dreaded words in the English language were:

“Are you up yet?”

In high school, my heart would pound at the sound of my mother’s footsteps at the end of the house, growing  louder as she approached my room—much like the music in a horror movie crescendos right before the grisly deed is done. After scraping my leaden body out of bed, I’d take at least two naps before school—usually one in the shower. That’s right, in the shower. I’d be so overwhelmed with exhaustion that I would crouch down and rest my head on my knees while the water streamed around me.

Looking back on it, in those days, I’d weirdly transitioned a number of daily acts of living to the shower—including brushing my teeth. I had an obsession with efficiency, and I truly believed that brushing my teeth while showering would save me a precious two extra minutes (to sleep, of course). Now, when I look back on this obsession, I worry: was I peeing in there as well?! Now, I honestly don’t remember doing this, but I admit it’s entirely possible—especially if I thought it would win me back another 30 seconds or so of snoozing. (Sorry, Mom).

In college, convinced I didn’t hit my peak productive zone til after 10, I’d sit in my lonely single dorm room and blare Les Miserables until the wee hours of the morning, drawing organic molecules, writing in my journal about my profound loneliness, and eating too much ramen.

Then, during my brief life as a commuting, corporate city-dweller, I would cry bitterly as I dug my car out of the snow during frigid pre-dawn Chicago mornings—mostly over having to get out of bed. Continuing my obsession with efficiency, I’d eat breakfast and do my makeup and hair while sitting in the morning traffic, and congratulate myself on the five extra minutes I’d saved. Sometimes I’d nap in the parking lot before going in. That stopped when, looking down during a presentation to the head honchos, I discovered I’d drooled all over my suit lapel,  which I then cleverly blamed on a run-in with the water fountain.

That all changed during grad school. Now, I rise before the sun—even on weekends. I’ve become that annoying person who won’t make plans after 9pm, and falls asleep during movies. Ideally, I’ll have at least two to three hours before I leave for work, to sip coffee, to read, to write, or go for a run.

I’d like to attribute this new “early to bed, early to rise” mentality on my work ethic, or some zen-like need to kick off my day with meditation.  The truth is, it’s bribery. Of both me, and my cat. (There I go, breaking another rule on how to avoid looking like a crazy cat lady).

See, what happened is that when I started getting up earlier, I started feeding Pierre Escargot a treat. I mean—getting out of bed is hard work. Maybe the most difficult task of the day. So I’d reward him with a treat and myself a bowl of chocolate-covered sugar bombs, and we’d get going.

What I didn’t realize is that I was effectively conditioning him to wake up earlier and earlier. Each morning, Pierre would get up increasingly early, stomp all over the bed—and me—before standing  on my chest and wailing (or “trumpeting,” as I like to call it). I’m not sure if this is better or worse for Birdbrain, who doesn’t like the early call time but probably prefers it to my previous habit of hitting snooze for a solid hour.

Regardless, for better or for worse, I’m no longer a night owl. And I definitely no longer sleep—or pee—in the shower. Now get me some sugar bombs, and let’s go.